Journey in Life: 12/04/18

Tuesday, December 4, 2018

"Eye sex" nghĩa là gì?

Photo courtesy Ashley Webb.

'Eye sex' nghĩa là 'liếc mắt đưa tình' (nhìn nhau tỏ rõ ham muốn xác thịt/dục vọng).

Ví dụ
Outlander fans are OBSESSED with Claire and Jamie's 'eye sex' from season one after More4 screening sparks steamy (ướt át, khiêu dâm và đắm say) throwback.

With sensual Venus traveling through your secretive eighth house, you will begin feeling attracted to partners with intensity and mystery during this transit. You will suddenly get the urge to dig beneath the surface, and partake in all things taboo. Eye sex is inevitable during this time.

Our eyes were speaking their own wordless language made up entirely of sex, and lust (thói dâm ô, thú tính; sự thèm khát, lòng tham), and heat and chemistry ((sự) hấp dẫn hoặc hiểu nhau). We were having eye sex. Right there. In lower Manhattan. Through the smoky haze of a crowded dance floor. The fact that it was in public made it oh so much hotter. Not a single entity in the room was aware of what was happening between the DJ and I. It wasn't forward like a touch. Or keen words. It was as if we were sharing an intimate little secret. Secrets are seductive (có sức quyến rũ/cám dỗ, làm say đắm). They're a collaborative exchange between two consenting (bằng lòng, ưng thuận) people, sort of like sex.

Phạm Hạnh

Kỷ niệm nào vội tan

sống vui vầy với cún cưng 14 năm, nhưng 6 tháng cuối cùng (trước khi cún chết) rất khó khăn/nặng nhọc, dù chỉ chiếm 3% thời gian bên nhau, nhưng khi nghĩ đến nó, chỉ nhớ những tháng ngày cuối cùng vất vả này mà không nhớ tới thời gian vui vẻ/dễ chịu trước đó -> vì sao?

-> như các nhà tâm lý đã phân tích, điều tương tự xảy ra với ngày cuối cùng kỳ nghỉ, cảnh phim cuối v.v...; -> muốn thay đổi, viết ra những kỷ niệm đẹp về chú cún, mời bạn bè cũng thêm câu chuyện của họ, và dành thời gian hồi tưởng lại những kỷ niệm này...
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Hi, Dan.

My dog lived to be 14 years old, but the last six months of his life were really hard. This only amounted to about 3% of his time with me, but when I think about him now, it's his bad last days that I remember most vividly, not the healthy and happy years we had together. Why is this?
—Jeremy

Psychologists (nhà tâm lý học) have found that our memories (ký ức) of an experience (trải nghiệm) are strongly influenced (bị ảnh hưởng mạnh) by the way it ends (cách chúng kết thúc)—the last day of a vacation, the last scene of a movie. So it's no wonder that your memories of your dog are colored by the end of his life. I'd suggest that you try to give yourself a new ending to focus on. Write down your good memories about your dog, ask friends to add their own stories and then spend some time just going over these positive memories. They'll become the new conclusion of your dog's story.