lovebird21cThe only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it. ~ Jordan Belfort
lovebird21clời khuyên truyền thống là không nên chia sẻ mục tiêu của mình với người khác, vì mục tiêu dễ thất bại, bạn bè ghen tị, sợ thay đổi v.v...
trong trường hợp đó, lời khuyên đúng là: cần những người bạn mới (những người giúp ta hoàn thành mục tiêu) ----- Give up and go up goals via Seth Godin
You will benefit when you tell lots of people your give up goals. Tell your friends when you want to give up overeating or binging or being a boor. Your friends will make it ever more difficult for you to feel good about backsliding.
On the other hand, the traditional wisdom is that you should tell very few people about your go up goals. Don't tell them you intend to get a promotion, win the race or be elected prom king. That's because even your friends get jealous, or insecure on your behalf, or afraid of the change your change will bring.
Here's the thing: If that's the case, you need better friends.
A common trait among successful people is that they have friends who expect them to move on up.
trong trường hợp đó, lời khuyên đúng là: cần những người bạn mới (những người giúp ta hoàn thành mục tiêu)
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Give up and go up goals via Seth Godin
You will benefit when you tell lots of people your give up goals. Tell your friends when you want to give up overeating or binging or being a boor. Your friends will make it ever more difficult for you to feel good about backsliding.
On the other hand, the traditional wisdom is that you should tell very few people about your go up goals. Don't tell them you intend to get a promotion, win the race or be elected prom king. That's because even your friends get jealous, or insecure on your behalf, or afraid of the change your change will bring.
Here's the thing: If that's the case, you need better friends.
A common trait among successful people is that they have friends who expect them to move on up.