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02 Feb, 2019
nên hẹn cà phê cạnh siêu thị,
sau 10 phút chuyện trò, gợi ý cùng nhau đi siêu thị,
nếu cuộc hẹn chẳng đến đâu, ít nhất làm được thêm việc,
nếu cuộc hẹn tốt, nghiên cứu chỉ ra rằng cùng nhau làm việc gì sẽ cho biết nhiều điều về bạn hẹn (có hợp nhau không) hơn là chỉ ngồi "phỏng vấn" ở quán cà phê,
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Dear Dan,
I have been using the dating app Tinder for a while. When I'm swiping right and left it's fun, and exchanging texts with potential dates is enjoyable, but when we meet face to face, it's often immediately clear that things are not going to go anywhere. Then I just try to count the minutes until I can politely say goodbye. What can I do to end a first date quickly but politely? And when a date does look promising, how can I be sure that we are really going to be compatible?
—Andrea
The answer to both questions is the same: Combine the date with an errand! Arrange to meet your date at a coffee shop near a supermarket. After ten minutes of having coffee together, suggest that you continue your date while shopping and take out your shopping list. That way, if the date is going nowhere, at least you are multitasking and making better use of your time. And if the date is going well, research shows that doing an activity together tells you more about compatibility than just interviewing one another in a coffee shop.
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