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"Love bombs" nghĩa là gì?
02 Nov, 2019
Yêu thương nhau bao nhiêu là cho đủ? Photo by Alvaro Reyes
"Love bombs" = Qủa bom tình yêu -> Sự khẳng định hoặc thể hiện tình yêu thương và tình cảm. Thường danh từ này để dạng số nhiều nhé các bạn.
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"In normal circumstances, falling in love is a process, (yêu là một quá trình)" Bennett says. "Healthy people get to know each other before expressing feelings of love, even if they feel strong instant attraction. Love bombers, however, will quickly express their feelings of love, maybe even within days."
The narcissist (người yêu bản thân quá nhiều và thích khoe về bản thân) is ultimately ‘manufacturing the positive appraisals’ (đánh giá, thẩm định tích cực) about oneself in you, in hopes of getting it back in return, in the form of praise. The love bombs act as a mirror to your deepest desires of being accepted, wanted, and to be seen.
"Love bombing is ultimately inauthentic (giả tạo) and manipulative (gạt gẫm bằng mánh khóe, gian manh)," Bennett says. "Your brain gets hooked on the highs of the attention. So, once the abuse and controlling behavior come, you’re less likely to recognize it and act on it. Plus, all your partner has to do is throw out a few more love bombs and you’re more likely to forgive and forget. The best method is to watch for the signs of love bombing at the beginning, so you can cut that person off because you get sucked in by his or her manipulation."
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