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Dear Dan,
Why does a first kiss feel so magical? Is it because of the law of decreasing marginal utility (quy luật lợi ích cận biên giảm dần), according to which the utility derived from every ensuing kiss decreases, or is it because (besides the fun of the clinch itself) the kiss provides you with so much new information—notably, that the other person feels the same way about you, which in most cases offers a huge relief from the anxiety that you were on a one-way road?
—Gaurav

I suspect that the reason first kisses are special isn't related to waning marginal utility or rising familiarity—and certainly not because they're better. (The technique, strategy, approach and objective performance of a smooch probably increases over time.) The key is that a first kiss has tremendous meaning (rất nhiều ý nghĩa) attached to it. It provides a transition to a new kind of relationship and a new way for two people to think about themselves, separately and together. Maybe it is time to try to imbue our other kisses with more meaning?

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Tags: marriage

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